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I absolutely don't trust women that don't support other women

I think it's a window into their soul and ones that cut down all women aren't good people, they're deeply insecure and therefore to be avoided. I love Taylor Swift's character for that reason, she is a great role model for girls.
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CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
When I see a woman claiming they prefer to have guy friends because it's less drama I just roll my eyes. I had a couple of both female and male friends throughout my life so far and I see no difference when it comes to the amount of drama among each group. So aren't they who cause drama whenever they have to share their space with another girl/woman in the first place by any chance? 🤔 Misogyny among women is a big red flag, tbh.
@CrazyMusicLover

LOL, yeah, it's pure projection on their part. It actually might be the biggest red flag ever because it means they hate themself.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
@Angelwarfare I get more a feeling they think they are special and different because guys often tell them that too. "Oh, you're not like other women." 😂 Yeah, sweetheart but at the end of the day you're not one of them either.
Having only guy friends is okay but feeling like you're something more and better because of it is stupid and childish.
@CrazyMusicLover

🤔Yeah, you're definitely onto something there!

In terms of the pick-me girls, I think it also makes them feel desired by the misogynistic men if they hate on women and feminists. In the end that isn't going to work out so well for them. 🤣
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
@CrazyMusicLover I disagree. To blindly enable a bad behaviour is the real red flag. We should be able to set boundaries regardless of what gender we are or what gender someone else is.

I don't support women. I don't support men. I support equality.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
@Queendragonfly I'm afraid I'm missing your point.
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
@CrazyMusicLover Aren't you shit talking women who say they prefer male friends while at the same time claiming we must support women? 🙂
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
@Queendragonfly Read what I wrote again.

[quote]Having only guy friends is okay but feeling like you're something more and better because of it is stupid and childish.[/quote]
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
@CrazyMusicLover [quote]When I see a woman claiming they prefer to have guy friends because it's less drama I just roll my eyes. [/quote] I was referring to this.
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
@CrazyMusicLover [quote]So aren't they who cause drama whenever they have to share their space with another girl/woman in the first place by any chance? [/quote]

And this. Not very supporting of women if I'm honest.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
@Queendragonfly And I assume you stopped reading right there. [quote]because it's less drama[/quote] Is crucial there, if you didn't notice.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
@Queendragonfly My point stands. I refuse to support women who are prejudiced against other women because according to their words being a woman automatically means there is going to be drama. That is not my personal experience.
@Queendragonfly Why wouldn't you want to support women? I don't get it. This has nothing do with anything but supporting women (just the same way as when someone says something positive about Biden, people bring up Trump or vice versa). What is so offensive to you about supporting women?
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
@CrazyMusicLover Maybe you haven't met guys who are chill to hang out with, I don't question that. But why is that your logic for what other people prefer or who they hang out with? Surely there are other experiences than yours in this world?

Example. In my experience there are women who feel they fit better in with a male group simply because of mutual interests. And when you are passionate about simliar things it's easy to enjoy the company.

Another reason. Some women who don't fit in to the leftover feminine stereotypes will feel that they are an owl among a group of flamingos. All birds but they're too different from one another so an owl will not feel that they belong there.

In my experience it definitely exists dramatic women with a bad character. For example it exists women who's main interest is to shit talk. About everyone they know. Back stab. Manipulate. Hurt people for fun for revenge for a reaction. It exists women who must have ur their way or they will punish everyone around them. There exists women who's hobby revolves around scrolling a Facebook user friend and shaming their selfies. It exists horrible cruel people with a vagina in this world.

And unfortunately they're most of the time having the leader role in a friend's group. So even if I like Lisa, Anna, Elsa, Nina, in a group. I might still decide to stop hanging out with them because they are tails between the legs of the manipulative b*tch in charge. Who I can't for the love of God tolerate. Because I'm hating women? No. Because I hate myself? No. Because I have self respect. Because I rather hang out with 5 nice dudes who treat me as an equal. I'm sorry if you haven't experienced that, but it exists. Just like women who deserves no attention or power does too.
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
@Angelwarfare Because I want equality. Not misandry or misogyny.
I don't support women or men. I support people who behave respectfully.

I don't care why a woman or man choose to leave a friends group. It's their right. If you feel threatened by a woman who hangs out with whoever she choose, you should reflect why that is.

You're kidding yourself if you think you're supporting women because in your own comments, you are condescending to women who hangs out with men. That shouldn't be a threat, if you support women, you support our right to our own choice. That includes lifestyles and who we hang out with.

See the flaw in your argument?
@Queendragonfly If you want equality, you would support women since there is no equality now.
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
@Angelwarfare [quote]yeah, it's pure projection on their part[/quote]

This reminds me of mean girls. I hope you see that.
@Queendragonfly Actually you seem like the mean girl now. 🤣
@Queendragonfly Also, this is a good lesson for me, because at first we related on mental health issues, then I saw you attacking a woman hurting on here. I called you out for it and thought I should maybe block you for it. You seemed to have learned from it, were the "sensible" one I was describing in my blocking Q, now you're back to the same old thing. Now you have me wondering if you are a man or misogynistic transwoman.
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
@CrazyMusicLover [quote]My point stands. I refuse to support women who are prejudiced against other women because according to their words being a woman automatically means there is going to be drama. That is not my personal experience.
[/quote]

And I refuse to support [i]anyone[/i]
who claims all women who hang out with men are automatically misogynists.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
@Queendragonfly Where did I say that?
@CrazyMusicLover I blocked her. I don't know if she can reply now or not. Gave her a chance and now she's out.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
@Angelwarfare Oh well... 🤷‍♀️ I have better things to do than explaining how I meant what I said to someone who wants to interpret it their way at any price this evening anyway. 😅
@CrazyMusicLover I think we all have better things to do than read that nonsense. 🤣