What do you think when a guy considerably younger than you (10-20 years or more, but still legal) is attracted to you?

I’m 31. and I find 21 too young. Maybe if I were 35 and he were 25, then it could be something to consider if I would find him attractive vice versa.

Though I would prefer someone closer to my age, and honestly I don’t know if a bigger age gap than 10 years would ever make me feel comfortable, when I have a nephew who is 11/12 years younger than me.

Probably wouldn’t go for a guy who was born in the same year as him or later.

Same as how I wouldn’t date men older than my older brother (10/11 years older).

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Patty81 · 41-45, C

In my 30s I'd say a five year younger gap would be about my max. In my 40s I'd expand that to 10 years. Basically any guy over 27 or 28 usually has matured... usually

KerriJC · F

21 is fine for fun, but not for a relationship

Sojournersoul · M

@KerriJC you are a cougar. 😉

GohantheThird · M

21 is way too young. He's probably buying drinks for his underage friends at that point.

I've had younger women hit on me, but they're usually in their late twenties. Much more appropriate.

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