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NOS4R2 · 41-45
@popmol i think that kind of 'want' implies hoping to be 'looked after'.
The majority of the mature women you prefer, have already spent decades looking after people already. They may want to move on from that sort of relationship. They may be done 'looking after' others.
I'm not saying it's wrong, (it's not), or that the type of woman you want isn't out there, (they are), it just might be you need to look further, or be clearer on what you want.
I'm just guessing here, but if it's a more 'leading' type woman you're looking for, you might want to look around specific forums more tailored for those types of dynamics.
The majority of the mature women you prefer, have already spent decades looking after people already. They may want to move on from that sort of relationship. They may be done 'looking after' others.
I'm not saying it's wrong, (it's not), or that the type of woman you want isn't out there, (they are), it just might be you need to look further, or be clearer on what you want.
I'm just guessing here, but if it's a more 'leading' type woman you're looking for, you might want to look around specific forums more tailored for those types of dynamics.
popmol · 26-30, M
@NOS4R2 haha i didn't see it as an insult but i like correcting miscommunication!
aah i'm suprised people actually looked at it!
well no bother, loads of people too it seriously while the joke was i'm upset that this older woman say i'm a treasure but if i'm a treasure why did no-one claim me! or when they say my daughter should date someone like you yet no daughters came to 🤪
therefore i was scammed and upset!
aah i'm suprised people actually looked at it!
well no bother, loads of people too it seriously while the joke was i'm upset that this older woman say i'm a treasure but if i'm a treasure why did no-one claim me! or when they say my daughter should date someone like you yet no daughters came to 🤪
therefore i was scammed and upset!
NOS4R2 · 41-45
@popmol The miscommunication was that you labeled this 'upset' . If you labeled it 'fun'
or put in the 'jokes' or 'funny' group people would have understood better.
I have read the other replies here, and understand you are frustrated that your interactions didn't head the way you wished them too. That's sad. But don't blame others for your own mistakes - people don't like that.
Nearly every reply was about you being unhappy about it. You made no jokes about it.
I think your expectations of others is too high.
No one is going to 'deliver' their daughter to some guy online, even if they had one. Their daughter is her own person, who is of age to go find who she wants herself.
No mother would do that.
Saying to you "I wish my daughter could find someone like you" is a compliment - not a promise of a hook up.
You were not scammed.
You will get nowhere blaming others for your own percerpions, that you distort when they don't work out the way you want.
Like this post.
You're not happy with the responses, and I get that. But the responses were appropriate for the type of post posted . They responded to the feel of the words and the setting they were set in.
You can't blame people for doing that .
or put in the 'jokes' or 'funny' group people would have understood better.
I have read the other replies here, and understand you are frustrated that your interactions didn't head the way you wished them too. That's sad. But don't blame others for your own mistakes - people don't like that.
Nearly every reply was about you being unhappy about it. You made no jokes about it.
I think your expectations of others is too high.
No one is going to 'deliver' their daughter to some guy online, even if they had one. Their daughter is her own person, who is of age to go find who she wants herself.
No mother would do that.
Saying to you "I wish my daughter could find someone like you" is a compliment - not a promise of a hook up.
You were not scammed.
You will get nowhere blaming others for your own percerpions, that you distort when they don't work out the way you want.
Like this post.
You're not happy with the responses, and I get that. But the responses were appropriate for the type of post posted . They responded to the feel of the words and the setting they were set in.
You can't blame people for doing that .
popmol · 26-30, M
@NOS4R2 well upset as that's how i felt being scammed.
and it was about the topic of being atracted to women therefore that :p
if i make a joke i put it in the group in the topic of the joke not jokes.
ooh no i don't mind. it's entertaining either way as long as they are still on topic!
well yeah i was scammed so of course i'm upset 🤪
🤣🤷 you are clearly thinking to far into this, i do not think i'm owned some lady.
"if i'm this great as they claim, why did i not find someone to love yet" is pretty much the joke.
since i haven't found anyone to love yet "i might be being scammed as they lied about my greatness"
and it was about the topic of being atracted to women therefore that :p
if i make a joke i put it in the group in the topic of the joke not jokes.
ooh no i don't mind. it's entertaining either way as long as they are still on topic!
well yeah i was scammed so of course i'm upset 🤪
🤣🤷 you are clearly thinking to far into this, i do not think i'm owned some lady.
"if i'm this great as they claim, why did i not find someone to love yet" is pretty much the joke.
since i haven't found anyone to love yet "i might be being scammed as they lied about my greatness"