because becky wrote about I feel pressured to render my stance. [I Hate Mothers Bringing Older Boys In The Women's Locker Room]
the way I see it seeing a womans naked and exposed body is a privilege not a right and that you should both ask if they welcome comments about their body and especially ones of a sexual nature before rendering commentary and you should as a rule be kind and say nothing rude if you cannot say anything nice just shut the hell up.
I love the female form, I cant sit here and bullshit you like I don't want to see a woman naked and pretty much always want to look at that sort of thing but for me it's not a privilege I get to experience all the time and well I don't think gratitude should be too much to ask for.
but yeah, consent is super important. obviously. so if a mother wants to bring her boys in she should probably check if there are other unisex rooms and if they aren't at least go in first and warn the ladies about her situation give them a heads up.
I don't want to be in the female locker room my self unless EVERY Woman in there doesn't mind me being there.
can't promise I won't at leat want to touch myself seeing that but you know...
only if you're comfortable with that.
this is a privilege, treat it like it it's special, because it is.