I Love Feminine Women

[quote]Ahh bless ya you do show your youth there.. a) it wouldnt get you banned just to say you like feminine women.. b) feminsim and femininity are NOT mutually exclusive.. it's perfectly possible to be both feminine and a feminist.. I am for a start.. so really you are just falling victim to the hatred hype there.. feminism doesnt mean man hater.. it doesnt mean butch.. it JUST means equality and respect..
And so while we are on the subject of equality and expectations. well then so you expect women to be this and that.. that's fine we all have our own preferences but you had better be REAL REAL SURE that if you are expecting women to be feminine that YOU are manly, protective.. if she has to dress up and do her hair then you do too.. not really fair to expect her to make an effort to look nice if you turn up in jeans and a t-shirt...
If you mean you want to take this anti feminism further then be real sure you are willing to earn ALL the money so she can stay home and raise kids and keep the house nice.. you work overtime she stays home..oh and of course you wont be expectin her to provide ANY sex before marriage will you cos a woman who isnt feminist will need to be very careful not to have sex before marriage in case it ruins her chances of getting a good man to support her..[/quote]Look, I'm trying to write for my other groups here, so I don't really have time for a long winded reply. But what the hell.
First of all, your assertion that you can be feminine and a feminist is not entirely incorrect. There are feminine feminists out there, like Christina Hoff Sommers, but these women are all moderates. The feminists who do not act feminine are radicals, and if there is one thing I have learned about ideologies, it is that the most radical voices always get the most attention. The fat blue-haired lesbians are the spokeswomen for feminism, and this is the version of feminism that many women get sucked into. As a result, a large part of the movement, and possibly even the majority, is radical.
Secondly, you can't hide behind the dictionary definition of feminism. This is blatant damage control, and it simply doesn't work outside of the feminist echo chamber. A movement should be judged by its actions, not its definition. And as I said earlier, the most extreme members of a movement tend to gain control by virtue of their extremism.
Thirdly, have you ever heard the saying "the house is so infested with termites that you just have to burn it down"? This is exactly the case with feminism. You can't damage control forever. Eventually, a movement or ideology (both of which describe feminism) will stray so far from its goals, and commit so many transgressions, that it simply cannot be saved, and has to be abandoned and replaced with something better. In feminism's case, this has already occurred a long time ago.
[quote]If you mean you want to take this anti feminism further then be real sure you are willing to earn ALL the money so she can stay home and raise kids and keep the house nice.. you work overtime she stays home..oh and of course you wont be expectin her to provide ANY sex before marriage will you cos a woman who isnt feminist will need to be very careful not to have sex before marriage in case it ruins her chances of getting a good man to support her..[/quote]I am willing to earn all the money. That is something men are naturally inclined to do. And I do not mind sex before marriage. My only condition is that she have some standards when it comes to sex, and not sleep around too much. There is a reason people do not like sluts, and why the "no sex before marriage rule" was invented in the first place. It's because god knows what you might be carrying.