I Have Curves

Mmm a 12 is fun size!

Whatever size you are, be confident in that.. That alone is beautiful 😊

I admitt my mistake, whatever country this is based off of, she is a size 10, but 4" taller than I. 😊

My ex fiancé was about 280-300 lbs before we broke up, and is knock out still.

[c=#4C0073] That depends on how you carry yourself. At size 12 I was fucking Gorgeous. At size 8 I wasn't as stacked as I wanted to be. I would never want to be smaller than a 10.[/c]

@VioletRayne: Badly. I carry it badly. Size 12 or 20, I am not an hourglass like her.
My face is my big problem though. 😂

@dystopianAntihero: Bigger women can be. Not trying to say they can't. It's genetic weight distribution, really...and the face.

@Myzery: [c=#4C0073]I just don't think you're as bad as you think. Whatever you are there is someone somewhere that is turned on by it.[/c]

Well, there's something for eveyone @Myzery. No matter what you look like, rest assured there's someone somewhere who thinks what you look like is the hottest thing ever. It takes an exceptional person to appreciate one.

@VioletRayne: Well, they are nowhere near me. My 15 year dry spell makes that painfully obvious. Where are all the blind guys at?! 😂

@Myzery: I seriously doubt that!

@dystopianAntihero: *Makes note to self: Figire out how to become exceptional and not just tge "exception to the rule".* 😂

@Myzery: You need to cast a wider net ;)

How? I have gone out alone nearly every night since I was 21...

@Myzery: Dating sites

I am not turning people down. I accepted a date from a guy in his 60s...but he saw me when he was sober and stood me up. 😂

There are probably even BBW ones these days

@Myzery: [c=#4C0073]If you don't like your face get another. There is make-up these days that can turn you into Beyonce😂[/c]

@Myzery: Beauty comes from many different things not just physically. It also comes from how you feel about yourself. To love someone you first have to love yourself!

@dystopianAntihero: The second "B" in BBW implies "Beautiful" though, which, while many are, I am not. False advertising. Lol
Plus...I watch too much ID where women in my situation are murdered by men off of dating sites for our money (even of it isn't much) because we're desperate. 😂

@waterman1005: While I believe that to an extent, I have read too many rimes on here and many other places where women hated themselves until their "one and only" showed them their own value.
I don't disagree with what you say, just saying that that isn't 100%.

@VioletRayne: Did you hear about the guy who divorced his wife because he didn't know what she really looked like until after she went swimming?
I am not about false advertising.
If I am too ugly to want, I am too ugly to want. That is my burden and my burden alone.

@Myzery: start by finding one quality about yourself that you like and work forward from there!

Yes, but not all BBWs are "pretty", just like not all beautiful women have hour glass figures. Beauty is a relative term. Put yourself out there, what have you got to lose? If you try and fail, at least you can say you tried. But if you don't try then you really can complain about there not being someone out there for you, bc you never really made a serious effort, and admitted defeat before hand.

Trust me, there are guys out there who are looking for just what you've got. And don't limit yourself to just BBW sites. I'm telling you, you are lots of guys ideal.

@waterman1005: I have qualities that I like about myself...but they don't make men want to have sex with me. 😂