Nick1 · 61-69, M
You are not alone. Many people don’t have gf for long time due to various reasons. Sometimes it’s better to be alone then in wrong or abusive relationship.
Just be yourself and available. Stay involved and interact with others whatever way possible. You may find a right person.
Good luck.
Just be yourself and available. Stay involved and interact with others whatever way possible. You may find a right person.
Good luck.
In this world there are probably millions of people with disabilities that are married or have gf's or bf's. Just strike up a conversation with the idea.... it's just talk. Don't Try to find a Gf.... let it happen. The best matches are seemingly accidental. You don't expect it....... but it happened. A person who falls for you will do that no matter what. Love don't see in you what you think are your drawbacks. it sees ur nature... ur personality.... u as a person. Go with that and stop thinking how you walk is the deciding factor. Just be who you are. You can't hide it... so why try.? Just be you.
Mathias · 56-60, M
@MaBalzEsHari Thanks for your words but it has gone almost 40 years and I have not noticed any love yet.
Hi Mathias.
You did pretty well in your letter, despite a few spelling mistakes, not a big deal.
Can women be piranha's? absolutely. They will come over as honest and sincere, but what is going on in the back of their minds may not be what you think.
For you I think it be very difficult to find a fully functional female as a partner. Have you considered finding someone with physical issues like you have? Someone struggling with the same emotional detachment. It might be a good match.
I wish you luck in your quest.
You did pretty well in your letter, despite a few spelling mistakes, not a big deal.
Can women be piranha's? absolutely. They will come over as honest and sincere, but what is going on in the back of their minds may not be what you think.
For you I think it be very difficult to find a fully functional female as a partner. Have you considered finding someone with physical issues like you have? Someone struggling with the same emotional detachment. It might be a good match.
I wish you luck in your quest.
Mathias · 56-60, M
@JamesBugman Thanks for your kind words. I am a member of two associations with people with all kind of disabilities both known and very rare as mine. But I want to meet a girl even without a disability not only a girl with disability. Please tell me what my spelling mistakes was.
@Mathias
borned = born
It has went almost 40 years now = It has been almost 40 years now
It seems thats girls scan guys = It seems that girls scan guys
My disability sadly causes my body posture being slightly worser = My disability sadly causes my body posture to be slightly worse
and after awhile both my back and neck hurts but luckily this hurts vanish after awhile = and after a while both my back and neck hurt, but luckily this goes away after a while. I would even consider replacing "after a while" with "after some time" and "soon after"
and really envy in others = and really envy others
etc = etc.
riding a tree-wheel bike = ride a three wheeled bike
use my legs to use the pedals = use my legs to pedal
then it is way to much and only that simple thing = then it is way too much and that one simple thing
I got my diagnosis 35 years ago and cried really much = I got my diagnosis 35 years ago and cried a lot
this wont be worser or better = this won't be better or worse
why did he said this = why did he say this
or did he meant what he said? = or did he mean what he said?
If my disability wont get better then its no idea to train = If my disability will not improve is there any point in training
occured = occurred
and thats something I have really hard to do. = and that's something I find really hard to do.
they seems to be a girl-magnet = they seem to be girl magnets
It seems that something blocks me and paralyze me = It seems that something blocks and paralyzes me
The first thinks I get is = The first thing I get is
but actually what means that smile? = but actually what does that smile mean?
borned = born
It has went almost 40 years now = It has been almost 40 years now
It seems thats girls scan guys = It seems that girls scan guys
My disability sadly causes my body posture being slightly worser = My disability sadly causes my body posture to be slightly worse
and after awhile both my back and neck hurts but luckily this hurts vanish after awhile = and after a while both my back and neck hurt, but luckily this goes away after a while. I would even consider replacing "after a while" with "after some time" and "soon after"
and really envy in others = and really envy others
etc = etc.
riding a tree-wheel bike = ride a three wheeled bike
use my legs to use the pedals = use my legs to pedal
then it is way to much and only that simple thing = then it is way too much and that one simple thing
I got my diagnosis 35 years ago and cried really much = I got my diagnosis 35 years ago and cried a lot
this wont be worser or better = this won't be better or worse
why did he said this = why did he say this
or did he meant what he said? = or did he mean what he said?
If my disability wont get better then its no idea to train = If my disability will not improve is there any point in training
occured = occurred
and thats something I have really hard to do. = and that's something I find really hard to do.
they seems to be a girl-magnet = they seem to be girl magnets
It seems that something blocks me and paralyze me = It seems that something blocks and paralyzes me
The first thinks I get is = The first thing I get is
but actually what means that smile? = but actually what does that smile mean?
MaBalzEsHari · M
Thanks for BA
Mathias · 56-60, M
@MaBalzEsHari What´s BA?
MaBalzEsHari · M
Best Answer.
Mathias · 56-60, M
@MaBalzEsHari Thanks