Oster1 · M
For women of substance, this is a myth! A confident and well rounded gentleman will always beat out an insecure punk, anyday! 😊
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Oster1 · M
To everyone here. I learned communication skills, years ago. They are like a Navy Blue Blazer and never go out of style. I read this weeks ago and shared with many friends. I've known this for a long time and through my businesses with primarily female client descision makers. It's a very interesting and astounding read.
https://thehill.com/blogs/blog-briefing-room/3868557-most-young-men-are-single-most-young-women-are-not/
https://thehill.com/blogs/blog-briefing-room/3868557-most-young-men-are-single-most-young-women-are-not/
graphite · 61-69, M
Actions speak louder than words. Nice, responsible, cordial guys are often consigned to the friend zone while bad boys with a lackadaisical attitude about women have them lined up.
OogieBoogie · F
You know, as a woman i hate to admit this is true, (to a degree).
I had this proved to me.
Story:
....years ago i had a argument with a male friend about this.
We were doing our usual, standing in a corner of a nightclub, amateurly disecting phychologies of random people 🙄😏....and we were arguing this point .
Me: from an independent small island girl.
Him, well socialised greek male .
I called bullshit on his opinion.
He said: "watch this".
And to cut it short, he showed me that ignoring women, and dismissing them, piqued their interest.
30 minutes and 2 telephone numbers later he proved me wrong.
I was so dissapointed in my gender. 🤦♀️
I had this proved to me.
Story:
....years ago i had a argument with a male friend about this.
We were doing our usual, standing in a corner of a nightclub, amateurly disecting phychologies of random people 🙄😏....and we were arguing this point .
Me: from an independent small island girl.
Him, well socialised greek male .
I called bullshit on his opinion.
He said: "watch this".
And to cut it short, he showed me that ignoring women, and dismissing them, piqued their interest.
30 minutes and 2 telephone numbers later he proved me wrong.
I was so dissapointed in my gender. 🤦♀️

SW-User
@OogieBoogie but, I did this too, it's more to do with confidence than anything
OogieBoogie · F
@SW-User oh yes....total confidence.
Doesn't mean it has to be legit, true, moral, kind or authentic .....it just has to be confidence.
Doesn't mean it has to be legit, true, moral, kind or authentic .....it just has to be confidence.
LilPrincess · 46-50, F
Noope...
I prefer a man with a sense of humor...not one I got to bail out of jail
I prefer a man with a sense of humor...not one I got to bail out of jail
Ferric67 · M
Confidence and toughness is what you're referencing...good, bad or ugly...anyone can have those traits.
No, not true at all.
Nah... he can stay home with his mama until he grows up a bit...
Not I. It's extremely undersirable.
redredred · M
As was explained to me, bad boys are candy, good men are a balanced meal. No matter how much of one you get you’ll always want the other too but there’s only one choice for the long term.
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
I think they will if they have a wild streak in them. Some get bored easily with nice & polite guys.
th3r0n · 41-45, M
I hate it
They think bad boys are strong, but most of them I could break like a twig without trying
They think bad boys are strong, but most of them I could break like a twig without trying

SW-User
women are weird
AshAnnJen2003 · 18-21, F
Sometimes you get suckered by the bad boy, but then you end up realizing he's a a jerk. So I wouldn't necessarily say we "like" bad boys, sometimes we just get caught up in the excitement.