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What should I do?

So there is a young girl at work she is nice and wants to join gym with me. But i said i am planning for a trip. And it was lik she wanted me to join since last month. Should I join the gym and then go to trip. Or should I go to trip them join the gym. I and asking because we have to pay 6 months gym fees
I wouldn't change my plans. I would go on my trip and then join the gym. Otherwise you'll be interrupting your workouts right in the middle, then going on a trip, then trying to get back into a pattern again. If she really likes you, she won't mind waiting.
@littlepuppywantanewlife you mean she won't mind?
@LadyGrace yes she won't mind.
@littlepuppywantanewlife Good, then I would go on the trip.
I have questions.

How young is she? You’re 31-35.
She wants to join a gym with you but you will be paying the fees? Will she be sharing the cost of the membership or just be your guest?
Is this a trip you have been planning and saving for and looking forward to?
Did you have intentions of joining a gym before she said something about it? Is it something you have been wanting to do?

I’ll be honest. Based on your post, I’m getting the vibe that she’s using your interest in her to get a free pass to a gym.
@Pinkstarburst i would message you. 😅
If this has potential to be more than a friendship, postpone the trip and spend some time one on one with her at the gym. By then she may even want to join you on the trip.
Dan193 · 31-35, M
Tell her about your trip
@Dan193 i told her.
@mysteryespresso she said she would wait for me. Since she wants to join with me. But today she was odd mood. I don't like the fact that she is delaying.
@littlepuppywantanewlife don’t take them seriously. You’re an alpha male, be focused on your mission not the woman
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
Can she join the gym on her own and then you join when you come back from the trip?, or is she expecting to go on your membership and have you pay?
@Jenny1234 if we join together we get a discount together.
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
@littlepuppywantanewlife fair enough but won’t you be losing money by joining before you go away
@Jenny1234 Yes that's would be a loss and i would be breaking the routine.
Carissimi · 70-79, F
Why do you have to join together?
Carissimi · 70-79, F
Okay, but that doesn’t answer my question. @littlepuppywantanewlife
@Carissimi we get a discount and she and I are new.
Carissimi · 70-79, F
Okay. That makes sense. @littlepuppywantanewlife
exchrist · 31-35
looks likew gym is the best idea sad 6 month fee, while keep saving for the trip
Sandra42 · 41-45, F
You should join the gym then take on the trip with you.
Carazaa · F
Join the gym and skip the trip silly!
Ontheroad · M
You should ask her out immediately and sort out whether or not there is a possibility of a relationship with her. That is what you need to know before you make a decision on what you should do.
@Ontheroad it's not relationship but a genuine friendship she is looking for. She is very young and her dad passed out due to corona.
Work out at home. Ask mom to prepare tea when you invite her over for a friendly tea with Bubu & family.
@sspec bubu 😑?
eMortal · M
If she’s already a member, ask her to take you as a visitor. Of course your goal is to get another date with her somewhere else.
Be honest .🤷‍♀️
@OogieBoogie i did and it works because she relies on me but I feel bad too. Because my life was hard and it takes time to be in this position.
MonaReeves86 · 36-40, F
Go on the trip then join the gym
lumberjackslam · 41-45, M
tell her to join on her own
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@swirlie 😂 great idea. But i am not looking forward to get laid 😂
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@swirlie no. I am not.

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