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I Believe All Women Are Beautiful

Yet I'm so incredibly hard on myself.....why am I like this馃檭
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Tatsumi31-35, M
Probably because female value is based a lot on looks. Not because of social influence, more because of human nature.

That profile picture is extremely beautiful, though. /not hitting on you, just, it is.

I think attractive women often have more insecurity about how they look than less attractive women. Because that's the biggest thing people see, so they start striving for this perfection that doesn't exist.

Oh. Attractive women who are confident are also thought to be, like, arrogant, i guess. You're supposed to be humble about it, in society's eyes. So, they tend to create this boundary they can't cross, by always saying other women are more attractive than them. Then that reasoning could get stuck in their head and start a sort of cascade. "Everyone is more attractive than me."

There's probably other reasons, too.
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@Tatsumi I'm a perfectionist I'll never be enough
Tatsumi31-35, M
@SW-User I can relate. But, there are some things you can't change. And with those, the only thing you can do is accept them.
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I have body dismorphia so it's hard @Tatsumi
Tatsumi31-35, M
@SW-User Mm. Well. We all have our battles.