How to approach and socialise with women

Literally talk to us without trying to use "game." We're human beings... talk to us like we're exactly that and it goes a long way. say hello and introduce yourself (while stating yourself intentions).


Remember that just because one of us or even many of us say "no" if is not personal. No human being unless they have spoken to you before meeting you has any real concept of you as a person before having come upon you. They're not trying to humiliate you or emasculate you by saying no. we're simply uninterested.


there's more but you can go from there. good luck.👍🏾

Let me put it simply. I am more than twice your age and I’ve been watching people for a long time.

There is no game. Game is a myth. If you’re in a bar , almost always, the woman who gives you her number already decided to do that. Same with going home with yoiu.

“Game” implies either you are pllaying and/or you are hunting and she is your intended prey. None of that provides a foundation for a relationship.

My brother told me about being in a bar when an attractive woman came in, took off her wedding ring and announced she was there “to get laid.”

A man approached her and bought her a drink. They drank and talked for over an hour. Then ANOTHER man paid his bill, walked over to the woman, and asked, “were you serious when you said you were here to get laid?”

She said, “Damn right, I was serious.”

He said, “Then let’s go.”

She left with him, leaving the first guy wondering what just happened.

I’m not saying that happens all the time. I’m saying when you’re following a script, playing a game, the woman you’re trying to win may walk away with somebody who listened.

never approach a woman. that's what I figured out.