Mamapolo2016 · F
First, refine what you are looking for. Looking for a girlfriend is not usually how things begin.
Begin with going places where there are people. Talk with the people you find - men and women.
If you “confidently” approach a woman who doesn’t know you and state you are looking for a girlfriend, you’re almost definitely going to make her uncomfortable, even scare her. Not an approach that works well.
Confidence means that you don’t squirm and stand shyly in a dark corner. It does not mean you come in with guns blazing. Confidence isn’t loud. Arrogance and aggression are loud.
Confident people step politely aside in a crowded room. They have nothing to prove. They know who they are.
Begin with going places where there are people. Talk with the people you find - men and women.
If you “confidently” approach a woman who doesn’t know you and state you are looking for a girlfriend, you’re almost definitely going to make her uncomfortable, even scare her. Not an approach that works well.
Confidence means that you don’t squirm and stand shyly in a dark corner. It does not mean you come in with guns blazing. Confidence isn’t loud. Arrogance and aggression are loud.
Confident people step politely aside in a crowded room. They have nothing to prove. They know who they are.
Peacefulwarrior1995 · 31-35, MNew
@Mamapolo2016 obviously getting to meet women and date. Where is the best place?
When i do approach just be confident and don't worry about outcomes?
When i do approach just be confident and don't worry about outcomes?
Mamapolo2016 · F
@Peacefulwarrior1995 I know nothing about you. Women have been spotted in bars, in offices, on beaches, in churches.
That’s a step though. You’re looking for a date, not an instant girlfriend.
That’s a step though. You’re looking for a date, not an instant girlfriend.
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Peacefulwarrior1995 · 31-35, MNew
@Jimbo6969 yes but i need to approach. But where is the best place?
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