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Miram · 31-35, F
You're a major red flag.
Strangesightings7 · 36-40, MNew
@Miram I won't play their game. The systems is not set up for everyone to be rich. You either struggle with children living in a stable home, or die of old age under the care of other individuals.
Miram · 31-35, F
@Strangesightings7
You're a major red flag even to women who aren't sexual and believe in having one partner for a life time, like myself.
You internalize other people's choices and sexuality, and display a tendency to control. It is wasted energy and will only bring you more misery. You cannot navigate the dating world in a healthy way while holding such unhealthy views and perceptions..
There is a very starking difference between exploring how you wish your own relationship should be , your own future partner...and how you wish an entire gender should carry themselves. You need to figure that out for your own sake.
I also don't think you're unmoved by women as much as you claim to be. Independency would entail lack of reactions not negative ones. Looking down on them is a negative reaction just like me calling you a red flag.
First step to liberating yourself from a community you believe doesn't reflect your values is to liberate your reactions from it.
Not to say that you need to do it. That's entirely different point.
You're a major red flag even to women who aren't sexual and believe in having one partner for a life time, like myself.
You internalize other people's choices and sexuality, and display a tendency to control. It is wasted energy and will only bring you more misery. You cannot navigate the dating world in a healthy way while holding such unhealthy views and perceptions..
There is a very starking difference between exploring how you wish your own relationship should be , your own future partner...and how you wish an entire gender should carry themselves. You need to figure that out for your own sake.
I also don't think you're unmoved by women as much as you claim to be. Independency would entail lack of reactions not negative ones. Looking down on them is a negative reaction just like me calling you a red flag.
First step to liberating yourself from a community you believe doesn't reflect your values is to liberate your reactions from it.
Not to say that you need to do it. That's entirely different point.
Strangesightings7 · 36-40, MNew
@Miram Well Miriam people aren't dating. All I see in social media is girls who want attention and won't give it back. Yet, time clicks and they wonder why they're not found attractive.
Miram · 31-35, F
@Strangesightings7 And you're wasting your life watching what others are doing with theirs.
Unplug.
People who play the game and succeed are those who focus on fixing themselves.
Unplug.
People who play the game and succeed are those who focus on fixing themselves.




