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Was she hitting on me?

About a month ago I took an overnight greyhound bus. I was one of the first on and chose an empty row. There were other seats available and a young woman chose the one next to me. We briefly shared our names and where our final stops were. About an hour in we fell asleep on each other and woke up when we arrived at the station to switch drivers. Due to protocol, we had to all get off and wait in the station, which was very miserable at 3 am. Anyways, while we were standing in line, she comes up to me, gently kicks me, whispers "hey" into my ear, then walks to the back of the line. As you probably figured out, I am socially awkward and had no idea what was happening, let alone how to correctly respond if she in fact was. We had no further communications or interactions after that.
Starcrossed · 41-45, F
Yeah kinda sound like she might have been. That sounds like some awkward ice breaker I would've tried too back at your age. I'm not sure I'd ever playfully kick someone I wasn't trying to flirt with.

Sometimes people flirt with no intention of things going anywhere, being flirtatious more just a personality trait of theirs. I kind of naturally joke around in that way with strangers all the time, male or female.

At the bare minimum, you can observe that she felt comfortable enough with you to do that and maybe at least was attempting to further engage with you. [Or she has odd boundaries]

How did you feel about her? Are you regretting how you responded [or didn't respond?]
eventtemple123 · 22-25, M
@Starcrossed I regret doing nothing. I had no idea what to do after that and was genuinely afraid that I could make her uncomfortable.
She might've been. But even if she wasn't, she showed comfortability with you & even tried to get your attention in a cute way.
Which shows she kinda liked you
Jimmy2016 · 61-69, M
🤔..............If she wasn't comfortable sitting next to you, she wouldn't have come up to you and whispered into your ear..........Lost opportunity to get to know her........
TheGreatestEver123 · 41-45, M
Sounds like she was shy too. As the guy, you are expected to take the initiative. You could have been in there. !!!
thatbuggerpaul · 100+, M
You do know that when you "both" fell asleep she was actually playing with your winky
LandOfOz · 61-69, M
Well you did a good job of letting that one slip
SW-User
she knew you had a sherk pfp on SW
Jimmy2016 · 61-69, M
🤔............When opportunity knocks.............
You fumbled hard
lumberjackslam · 41-45, M
that was the cue for some tongue action

 
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