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Character and personality. The way they think, the way they act, the way they handle different situations.
Although in the past, it used to be the face. I'd see a pretty face and I'd be hooked.
But now, physical beauty doesn't draw me any closer. There's got to be something more to her than her beauty for any interest to spark. There's too many beautiful women in this world; but how many are actually nice and kind and caring and loving and giving?
Most people these days are just selfish. They only care about themselves. They don't care about you. They're with you because you provide them with something. Take that away and they're gone.
Another consideration is whether she's interested in me. Most women don't approach men or take any initiatives. So when someone shows interest in me, well, I find myself drawn towards them.
Although in the past, it used to be the face. I'd see a pretty face and I'd be hooked.
But now, physical beauty doesn't draw me any closer. There's got to be something more to her than her beauty for any interest to spark. There's too many beautiful women in this world; but how many are actually nice and kind and caring and loving and giving?
Most people these days are just selfish. They only care about themselves. They don't care about you. They're with you because you provide them with something. Take that away and they're gone.
Another consideration is whether she's interested in me. Most women don't approach men or take any initiatives. So when someone shows interest in me, well, I find myself drawn towards them.
Bonnie · 41-45, F
@rrraksamam well said