For what it's worth I do not think of the reality of lesbianism as a choice.
However, I am done maintaining the farce here. I don't get a choice in my own attractions or my own heterosexuality either.
There's a reason I ust put it out there that I have no intention of bullying you into doing anything but most especially dating me. I accept the reality in situatuons like that for what they're worth (that it will never be what I want it to be.)
But in my case asking me to restrain my affections, pretend I'm not attracted, self censor and hide my feelings from you if it does happen is truly too much to ask for.
if my developing a crush would make you profoundly uncomfortable i would advise you to block me honestly.
Let's get that shit over with early rather than later.
so be advised. I Intend to accept the reality of my fate but I intend to describe in great detail how much I adore you if I do end up attracted to you despite Accepting that reality. If this makes you uncomfortable just don't get involved with me in the first place.
Have a nice day. If I'm fond of someone they will hear about it.
There's a reason I ust put it out there that I have no intention of bullying you into doing anything but most especially dating me. I accept the reality in situatuons like that for what they're worth (that it will never be what I want it to be.)
But in my case asking me to restrain my affections, pretend I'm not attracted, self censor and hide my feelings from you if it does happen is truly too much to ask for.
if my developing a crush would make you profoundly uncomfortable i would advise you to block me honestly.
Let's get that shit over with early rather than later.
so be advised. I Intend to accept the reality of my fate but I intend to describe in great detail how much I adore you if I do end up attracted to you despite Accepting that reality. If this makes you uncomfortable just don't get involved with me in the first place.
Have a nice day. If I'm fond of someone they will hear about it.
