@saintsong okay other posts in group could give context and idea. In earlier posts you talked about encouraging your son with his shy new girlfriend encouraging her to come over and come out of her shell? In this post it’s like a full 180 turn around you risk sabotaging any further relationship progression

@QuietEd2019 I'm just engaging with them with my whimzical self, I'm silly, I'm in their faces, checking in every 20 minutes saying embarrassing things that are a part of my over the top crazy mother things! My son knows me and loves me, he's so serious and I'm so silly, yet there is a method to my madness. He knows I'm being playful, yet checking up on them and dropping hints yet making it funny and silly and welcoming, that's just me and my personality. He's already warned her, I too told her that my husband warned me not to scare her off I told her that, she laughed. This is all new to us too we are all just trying to wade knee deep in the waters of getting comfortable with one another and knowing where our borders are. Sprinkled with humor. And truth.

@saintsong at the moment it’s seemingly no privacy and no boundaries for your son and his girlfriend she may have laughed initially nervous laughter now she’s getting the reality of what she was warned about it would likely drive her away and even put distance between you and your son