I Never Understand

The whole stigma and concern over age, or should I state age difference, between people.

There's 20 years difference between me and my fiancé...we have interests, we have differences, we have complimentary personalities. It's what makes us different to each other and it's also what bring people together.

There's always that 'outsider' viewpoint of 'Well, they must be getting something from this to stick around...', which insinuates money, property or status of some kind...and yet, ironically, what these people fail to understand is that we always get something from someone which makes us stick around!

I'm very Zen. I value peace of mind and happiness more important than the desire to make more money.

It doesn't interest me.

Likewise other people's thoughts.

I'm too busy living my life with those that I love to ever think about how I 'look' to others.

Sarah 💋

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Guy001 · 36-40, M

Losers hate those who have something they want but cannot have and often justify their behavior with subjective fringe morality. The likes of which, never holds up to empirical analysis. Females tend to prefer older males, males prefer younger females and this is driven by biology (species survival). Don't listen to the pontificating simpletons who often cloak their arguements in opinions, not facts...which they will insist are one and the same.

If you're interested i know a few good books on the subject. You can read them and then insist that the aforementioned simpletons read them too...which they won't do.