Is it bad….

My car had a flat tire recently and when I found it my neighbor (who happens to be a mature black gentleman) saw me and came to help me. When he came over I honestly started feeling helpless and all I could say was “oh no, not my tire….”. Before I could say anything else, he was changing it and all I could do is stand there and watch. There I was in running shorts and flip flops looking on helplessly as he changed my tire. Honestly, I was a little turned on… To thank him, I made him dinner a few days later. Am I a horrible person for just standing there watching? 😩