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beermeplease · M
all this talk about fwb....i want one again 😭... i miss my last one. it's a long story. but i almost messed up a long term friendship with a friend when i suggested it....but my feelers are still out there but i think i'm losing my touch as i get older.....
caccoon · 36-40
@beermeplease I hope you can find something. If you really want it, you will!
beermeplease · M
@caccoon i'm in that grey area because i'm in my 50s...yeah would i like a relationship with the right person?..sure i would...would i like a fwb..sure i would but i have it in my brain women my age want a companion and younger ladies don't an older guy as a fwb... i'll keep my eyes open though...i'm still reasonably good looking enough where i'll get there again
caccoon · 36-40
@beermeplease surely there are women in your age group that want the same thing.
I speak to so many women in their late forties, early fifties and into sixties who are perfectly attractive and lovely, but feel invisible.
I think the problem with men is they just want the younger women typically. And you're just not going to get it in any healthy way
I speak to so many women in their late forties, early fifties and into sixties who are perfectly attractive and lovely, but feel invisible.
I think the problem with men is they just want the younger women typically. And you're just not going to get it in any healthy way
beermeplease · M
@caccoon i've come to that realization. however i have had younger ones before like when i was 37 she was 25 or when i was in my 40s i still could attract the same....just not any more and i'm ok with that...i think ladies my age or even older who have taken care of themselves can still be very attractive.... sometimes when i see some sw'ers around my age post their pics i'm very impressed...wowsas!
caccoon · 36-40
@beermeplease I'm so disheartened by your reply but thank you for your honesty
beermeplease · M
@caccoon maybe that's my problem...i'm honest...maybe i should be more of a badass bad boy... got any ideas for a tattoo?