To me, it feels like a lack of commitment and faithfulness. Why spend the time ogling when they have you, right? Probably tied to ego. It isn't about jealousy for most women, it's about disrespect and invalidating your feelings and what you have.
@Magenta the last guy was a conundrum. I'm fairly attractive and hes never had a proper gf or even kissed with tongue before me. Still couldnt do what i wanted.
