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zeppo313 · 36-40, M
Have you went for those drinks? I'm sure you have thought this through and know it's really risky to go out with co-workers. I'm not saying you shouldn't, just be cautious! :)

Never get involved with colleagues. No matter how tempting it looks...its just not worth it.
BawseBaby · F
@Vivaci never is for everyone else. Im to curious to leave well enough alone lol
@BawseBaby Your career your call...🤗
SilkandLace2 · 46-50, M
YAYY for you!!🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
Just be sure that you can deal with the consequences if the relationship doesn't work out...
BawseBaby · F
@HootyTheNightOwl of course. No business and pleasure here but no rules against flirting 😉
Northwest · M
Workplace romances are really tricky. Especially with someone who may be on the rebound.
Northwest · M
@BawseBaby As in I've seen what happens when colleagues do it? Yes.

Tempting as it may be, I never did even though my company was like a dating site. There were law suits (sexual harassment and people called in as witnesses in divorce cases), discrimination lawsuits, etc.

As a male, I've also been extremely sensitive to workplace harassment, and realize that women should not be subjected to attention they may not want (intended or not). They're there for the same reason I was: work and advance my career. I've seen some really ugly behavior from male colleagues.

I've dated women I've "worked" with.
BawseBaby · F
@Northwest well, perhaps if the circumstances are right and maturity exists, it might be a positive experience.
I guess I'm too old to worry much about advancing my career and more interested in experiencing life
Appreciate the reply and enjoyed reading it 😊
Thank you
Northwest · M
@BawseBaby You're young, and there's no age limit on advancing one's career. Advancing one's career and experiencing life are not mutually exclusive (my personal experience, your mileage may vary :-))
Lostpoet · M
I bet I could beat him up
Lostpoet · M
@BawseBaby I was just kidding but military doesn't mean much if he didn't keep up with his training.
BawseBaby · F
@Lostpoet 😉 I know
And yes, you're right but...he has no issues with that.
Lostpoet · M
@BawseBaby 🤞 Here's hoping sexy things happen for the both of you.
michelle85 · 31-35, F
I’ve had a few flings with colleagues. Good and bad.
TakenDown232 · 46-50, M
What are you waiting for? If you want him that much and he is showing interest. Invite him to your place and meet him in a sexy dress.
BawseBaby · F
@TakenDown232 he hasn't really. At least that I've been able to discern. Because I work with a bunch of guys, I try to dress nice without being too different in order to maintain a level of authority and respect i.e. nothing to feminine
TakenDown232 · 46-50, M
@BawseBaby
So trick him to fall into you. Guys love to help women. Tell him your car won't start, you make it won't start so he offers to drive you home. Invite him in for a coffee to thank him. Spill the coffee on his pants and yours. Insist to wash and dry to fix this. And when you are both bottomless, you will... 😘💕✨💨
BawseBaby · F
@TakenDown232 oh my... Great suggestions... Thank you
BawseBaby · F
@bijouxbroussard I agree 😉 the conversation has been stimulating. Thank you!
@BawseBaby do what you want to do if that’s what you want then do it
BawseBaby · F
@NaughtyPickle always as long as it's respectful and classy 😉
Always a lady and never a whore. The world has enough whores.
Thereyouare · 56-60, M
Good luck with him
Hate when people have regrets for not taking a chance now and them
BawseBaby · F
@Thereyouare I never have regrets just learning experiences
Ever taken a chance like this?
Thereyouare · 56-60, M
@BawseBaby yes I have was great fun and great memories.
I will always cherish
Them life got in the way
BawseBaby · F
@Thereyouare well, the silver lining is a beautiful memory... cheers
kawasaki · 26-30, F
BawseBaby · F
@kawasaki always.
Just fun to fantasize...
DCarey · 46-50, M
BawseBaby · F
@DCarey he could suck in bed. Need to kiss him BUT before we get there, need to find out if he's interested otherwise.... Lol
Docbus · 51-55, M
BawseBaby · F
@Docbus lol! He is but probably not for the same reasons
There’s a saying, “don’t crap where you [b]eat[/b]”. Obviously you’re going to do what you want, but if you like where you work and were hoping to advance, getting involved with a co-worker is the way to totally [b]wreck[/b] that path. Good luck. 🙁
@BawseBaby Yes. I fell in love with a co-worker. And I transferred out of that department and city so I could be with him without destroying my career. We were together 7 years.
BawseBaby · F
@bijouxbroussard so you regret it?
@BawseBaby No, [b]because[/b] I didn’t stay in that department and subject myself to office gossip and drama. If I had, I knew there would’ve been problems.
MichaelT · 36-40, M
Good Luck.
Alex51 · 61-69, M
BawseBaby · F
@Alex51 would have but decided not to. But still have a crush lol 🥰

 
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