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Yesterday, I sat with a refugee from Sudan.

He said I was the first person in the region who had actually looked at him and spoken to him as a decent human being in weeks.

He was sitting in the street, in the rain. I still need to ask about his age, but I think he’s in his twenties. We went inside a bakery, and they had really delicious looking pastries. I should have taken pictures of them. It was some type of new local food. Unfortunately, I can’t touch any of that never mind eat it. Even being there was risky enough. He got a few things from the bakery for himself and his friends.

Then we talked about where I live and how it’s safer if he wants stability. At first, he didn’t believe me, but I showed him pictures of the villages and the local workforce. I couldn’t stay for too long because I’m still sick as hell. He agreed to meet again today and bring his friend. He told me he used to be a nurse student back home. And I tested his knowledge and he didn't disappoint.

We also talked about my ethnicity, and I had to explain to him that I am native and actually a minority that most of the people he is looking at are descendants of immigrants and invaders. And told him words from my native language. Then I said something racist about descendents of invaders now thinking themselves entitled to judge who lives where in africa 👀 he laughed and told me racism is bad.

There are hundreds of refugees in the city now from African countries. Whenever there is some kind of political crisis, they are rounded up and sent back to the south.

It’s heartbreaking how they are being treated.

Some refugees from specific regions do have avenues to integrate. Others have to rely on loopholes, community help and similar measures. It has always been this way for war victims, although now one can do a few things to help give them a chance to seek out stability.
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Then we talked about where I live and how it’s safer if he wants stability. At first, he didn’t believe me, but I showed him pictures of the villages and the local workforce.

He must be very traumatized to not be able to contemplate something better than what he has ostensibly known, that is unfortunate

He told me he used to be a nurse student back home. And I tested his knowledge and he didn't disappoint.

That is intriguing. Is he from one of the more preferred regions for integration? I imagine there are so many like him who need help, and this needs to be addressed in more comprehensive, long term ways, but I do also hope he can stay there, if he chooses, perhaps he could even become a more reliable colleague who wouldn't continue that weak culture of blaming laziness on Allah.

I notice that English is also an official language of Sudan, which surprised me, I am curious which language the two of you conversed in.
Miram · 31-35, F
@SnickersDOM Sudanese Arabic! And yes, he does speak some English.

He can integrate here. He can't do it alone. He needs someone to sponsor him and do few things under the table 👀

But yes, he will be alright and have a fine life.
Miram · 31-35, F
@SnickersDOM


He must be very traumatized to not be able to contemplate something better

He thought I was a bait. They do this to find them. Have them bring others and the sort.

Although right now they have stopped and letting them be.
@Miram I hope he feels more at ease now and trusts you ... I'm glad they're letting up a bit for the moment, especially this moment in the region
BooksRMe · 46-50, M
Even sickness doesn't keep you from being the most awesome person, your full recovery is my wish 🫂

 
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