I'd Rather Get To Know You Than Small Talk

I really hate when people start a convo with hey sometimes. Like hit me with something good or with something interesting rather than just having the niceties for some awkward sum minutes. I would so much rather have a proper in depth convo than endure some small talk.

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lilly369 · 26-30, F

I find it hard to start chats with something too substantial when I don't know the person yet

newdawnnewday · 22-25, F

@lilly369 I get that. I usually read through people's stories on here before I would message them and start from there on something they said that interested me

lilly369 · 26-30, F

@newdawnnewday That works. I can see how you get annoyed when someone just says hey...

newdawnnewday · 22-25, F

@lilly369 I just think it is trite at this point especially if u have access to someone's thoughts like this platform allows you to. It is probably just the English major in me who loves a good opening line to a book just like a convo would have lol

ozgirl512 · 26-30, F

@lilly369 yup... Not much of an ice breaker...