I'd Rather Get To Know You Than Small Talk

@DDonde 🤔 I dun understand how the ladies aren't lining up to talk to you in person? 😃 Ps no homo 😆

@MrFreeeeeze Thanks. I wish I understood this too. I am a very shy person. Or maybe it's my posture, or demeanor.
Yesterday the cashier was smiling at a customer, saying bye. It came to my turn and her smile immediately faded. :(

@DDonde I get this a lot. As being an introvert personality, i would like to think we don't carry the "social energy" like others. But when i seem to be wear my smile. People pick up on that then it is easy to engage.

@DDonde Sometimes you come off as disinterested, maybe? Like you have an air of "I'm too cool for this" and I would believe it if I hadn't read here before that you struggle with confidence.

@SwampFlower Lol, that's really kind of funny to me, because I'm not like that at all, lol. In my own head I mean. I wonder how I can change that perception.
I'm actually a huge dork lol. I often have no idea how to react to things and run out of things to say.

But I believe you.

@DDonde lol I figured it wasn't really like that. I think shyness can often come off as disinterest, or even disdain with some people (not you, though).