I started meeting with new people again. It's relaxing to talk over coffee. But the topics on the table and what comes out of the person's mouth...

...I wonder if they are aware that their concerns and the stories they tell of people they know reflect on their character too.

I do not know if the persons they speak of are aware their stories are being told to a random stranger.

But mostly, I wonder if they know that it matters greatly what they choose to bring out in the table.

What comes out and what does not come out from the mouth of the wise tell boldly of their heart and character.

But the same can be said for those who are being chased by wisdom, but are too fast, they elude wisdom.

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CrazyMusicLover · 31-35

If someone talks to me about someone I don't know in a negative way, especially if they use offensive words, I often find myself think badly about themselves rather than the person they talk about. It's just their side of the story and I don't know what's the whole picture.

Skoolschool · 31-35

Yeah, I'm not sure either. I wondered if those who always talk about themselves realize they are doing it. Like do they see how they redirect a conversation so they are the main topic or not?

I know someone who purposely does it, but they are grandiose, self-centered, and conceited all of the above...I tell you it's difficult to deal with.

Menetics · 26-30, F

If I were you, I'd avoid them. I had friends like this too and I no longer speak with them.

Queendragonfly · 31-35, F

Sounds like you met with gossip girls

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