While you smile and laugh at that guy with the pumpkin spice latte, in your mind he's lost his man card and is now friend zoned.

hmmm why? do you think its not manly to have spice?

What if this is just a one off. Maybe he has better taste but needed a touch of nostalgia for his day? Unless he's wearing a business casual shirt and jeans with really expensive shoes... then you do kinda know.

this is why I don't date.
also Im married. so there is that.