Do you miss them ? Or do you miss the way they made you feel? Or both or is it an illusion of our own mind ? [I Dont Like Small Talk]

@Beatbox34 sometimes we project onto others

@SW-User I didn't get you. Could you elaborate please?

@Beatbox34 sometimes we tend to project our wants and needs onto others but that person really isn't what we think we want them to be

@SW-User This is partially true in my case. However, I am a guy who thinks 5 steps ahead. I knew it wouldn't work out. She said we'd make it work and that's how I ended up being a fool.

Little did the younger me know that words mean nothing. I realised with time that people don't take words seriously as I do. At the end she did make me feel all of it was an illusion and I got depressed for 2 years over that.

@Beatbox34 sometimes we learn the hard way..but it's just another lesson in life