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NiftyWhite 路 46-50, F
Your message is true. You have to accept what happens. Whether or not everyone will be ok is debatable depending on how well people accept their circumstances. Personally for me, I鈥檝e had to face reality and I was NOT ok for a very very long time. Maybe still not ok.
SW-User
@NiftyWhite I'm a make lemonade out of lemons type of a person .My heart could be crushed in millions of tiny pieces and I will still have that need to turn something bad into something good ...it's for survival
NiftyWhite 路 46-50, F
@SW-User that has a big bearing on how well you will bounce back
SW-User
@NiftyWhite I have been going through some life changing stuff for the past year . I'm still feeling the residual effects from it . Moving forward is not a choice ...it is what I have to do or it will destroy me . * sorry if I sound dramatic but it's true * I have to move on ..slowly I have been ..it's not a choice for me .That choice was made for me .
NiftyWhite 路 46-50, F
@SW-User i can relate. i had a bad breakup around the death of one of my parents. OK the death couldn鈥檛 be prevented but the breakup could have been at least delayed. anyway it f&@$&d me up a long time and i couldn鈥檛 change any of what happened: Moved forward, it felt like, with 2 broken legs, slowly and not easily. wasn鈥檛 a choice but a duty . Never healed correctly from either loss.
SW-User
@NiftyWhite I am truly sorry for your losses and hope find peace one day .
NiftyWhite 路 46-50, F
@SW-User thanks. right back at ya.
SW-User
@NiftyWhite the only thing I lost was my sense of self and self respect..I'm working on both
NiftyWhite 路 46-50, F
@SW-User pretty important things tho! You can do it!
SW-User
@NiftyWhite yup