another one leaves us, do to the rude jerks

this is your fault,
rude dudes

As a pretty nice fellow, the LADIES I befriend here, stay in touch as long as they ARE here.
many tho, have messaged to say goodbye, dozens over my time here.

the reason is almost 100% IDENTICAL

Rude men, cruel comments, made to be hurtful. unwanted sexuality
(dickpics fer gawds sake!) constant messaging for nude photos "what are you wearing' guys that pretend to be interested, in a lady's post, only to drop that pretense to move to tell me about your tits
hateful incels posting and ranting. reactionary elder bigots that cant say anything without spitting hate, much of is against women.

This is not just the young, shy and tender girls,
it includes adventurous, exciting women, the very kind you WISH you could know, the kind that DO enjoy being sexy, the kind open to tough discussions.,even available for sensuous contact
many of these ladies were so sweet and kind, smart witty and dear to know.

[i]today I got another farewell, from a place far away trying to reach out to a bigger world than the restrictive ones they live in.
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I suppose there are the kinds of guys that would kick a puppy

I will not name them, ( you can) they would just relish the effect they have had on others..

I wish I didnt hate these jerks hate is a poison, and I feel poisoned.

they ruin things for the rest of us.. and revel in doing so.

we know what they are, and they damage all the contact
even here.

Goodby Sweet ladies,, I am sorry I could not help you resist those awful men.,

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Punches · 46-50, F

People always say they are leaving but then either come back as normal or maybe with a new account.

SatyrService · M

@Punches but some *sigh* never return others go dark no activity, just ghosts

Punches · 46-50, F

@SatyrService Who left this time though?

SatyrService · M

@Punches not for me to say,. it was a Private communication.

Punches · 46-50, F

@SatyrService Oh they will be back, whoever it was.
Yeah sometimes social media like this does make us feel like crap either cause of direct insults OR we might feel like we are invisible but people come back anyways.

SatyrService · M

@Punches no,. when they are gone for more than a year? they are not returning
not everyone wants to make a new profile only to get the same treatment.
look in your own friends list see all the pink X's

iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

@SatyrService you are right, not everyone wants to put up with that.

Punches · 46-50, F

@SatyrService I do not even know who half of them are, but a few of the pink X are the same person, and a couple of them started new accounts.

I have never run into any serious drama here. Usually if someone does not like me they just block. There are a couple I argue with on the regular BUT I imagine they do not take me seriously either 😁

I think some people have too high of expectations of this site. I have only five people blocked.
One was someone we got into a cussing match over a real dumb PM, two are sex spammers, one is Otter cause she is a pest, and some guy called Timbo cause he is a stalker.