@OldBrit I somewhat hope it's not because I really don't feel that he wronged me at all. Like there was only one night where I felt it was important to kinda take care of him, and even then it wasn't so bad.

@BlueVeins I'm a recovering alcoholic. The vast majority of people I've tried to make amends to on my step 9 list have said something like "You have nothing to apologize for"

However I know that if I'd not said what I had to say the guilt could have been so damaging for me.

Just hear him out. If you feel like that tell him but let him also make his apologies if he feels he needs to.

There are others though where the response was "F*** off!"

Which means I failed to adhere to the final clause of step 9.

@OldBrit Well, you can't always fix every bridge that gets burnt. I'm glad you've recovered, I know that's some really serious shit. 💝

@SW-User yeah, i didn't think about that