Hi Ma'am....I hope this finds you well and ready for winter....grrrr....I've messaged you twice to see if you had any interest in chatting about your thoughts,experience and beliefs as far as spanking and discipline are concerned....I feel that too many parents are more concerned about being "friends" with their kids rather than being their parents.....You've never responded to I'm not sure if you even got my messages???I hope we can chat soon because now I feel like I'm bribing you:)But I think every mom needs one of these!!