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31-35, M
About Me
About Me
TLDR; New here. Looking for partner(s). ANR/ABF, soft Dom, pleasure dom, lets have fun.

I have been in different circles of the BDSM lifestyle for about 12 years now. 10 of them with a committed partner. Now that that commitment has ended I have a freedom to explore and find out things about myself that I didn't have the ability to before.

As for my main interest of being here, I am looking for a partner who is interested in an ANR/ABF type of connection. I have strong experience with inducing lactation so a dry partner is not a problem. I hunger for the connection that can come with this type partnership above all else. It can be an amazing thing. So sex isn't a need if we connect for this reasoning.

After really taking the time to explore the site, I understand this doesn't seem to be the main use for this place but I am looking for someone to form a long term commitment if possible. I'm open to the nonmonog side of things (I was in the swinger lifestyle for 13 years) and I'm okay with a simple play partner style (FWB) of connection but long term is my main focus.

When it comes to the whole play section of things. Im on the soft side of the spectrum. Not really a Daddy as I find that term to be uncomfortable but I guess there isn't really any other way to put it? I enjoy taking care of my partner. Whether it be through excessive pleasure or forehead kisses and cuddles. That's not to say I don't have a hard side. I've done my fair share of impact punishment and the like. Doling out writing assignments while kneeling on salt is an effective way to get a point across same as standing against a wall, arms held up while holding books.

I will be updating this as my time here progresses but thanks for reading my incoherent babble.

Cheers