Hi, I’m a gay man in my 40s. I’m wouldn’t say I’m here for hookups cause I believe irl is the place for those. I was married with two kids when I came out. My ex and kids were actually understanding and I remain on very good terms with all of them. I might enjoy fun conversations with men and even women here let’s see.
In answer to questions I’ve been asked here I don’t identify as a T here or even a crossdresser because I see myself as more of an effeminate man, but man. I dress feminine for my lovers sometimes and I like the feel and power of it but in public I’m just that cute gay guy, maybe wearing some lip gloss. I’m 5-9 and about 145 pounds. I’ve been divorced for four years and had seven male lovers. That’s not so bad, right? 😉 My first experiences with men came after my separation from my wife. It was kind of awkward and unsatisfying the first two times and I was unsure of my role and I even questioned if I was actually gay. My third lover was skilled and knew exactly what he wanted me to be. He was very well endowed but patiently taught me to enjoy that mmm. He taught me so much more too, including how to dress sexy. We couldn’t get enough of each other. Yes, he sissyfied me. And yes, I am totally a bottom. He’s the first guy I called daddy and that came so naturally. He moved away for his work and I found myself looking for new lovers but at least I knew what I wanted. My wife remarried two years ago and I went to their wedding. Her uncle came up to me and said everyone always figured I was gay and he was glad I’d finally discovered that myself. After a few drinks he was blatantly flirting and I was very tempted but I had the good sense not to open the door to that drama at my ex’s wedding. Anyway, that’s me 😙
Another question Someone wanted to know if I was heartbroken when my daddy moved away. It was sad for sure but we stay in contact and he’s been back on visits. I come calling when he beckons. He was in town once and he didn’t contact me. I messaged him that if he didn’t want me to know he was here he shouldn’t post on insta. He said don’t be a needy little bitch. Aww he called me little 😋 Daddy’s little bitch doing what she does
To clarify I have been out in public with lipstick and makeup. I went to a gay rights rally and honestly I was looking to see if there were any interesting guys more than supporting the cause. Bad gay boy
