Finchy

I’m a fabulous, sexy bottom. If you want to know more read the blah blah blah below 😘

Hi I’m a gay man in my early 40s. I wouldn’t say I’m here for hookups cause I believe irl is the place for those. I was married with two kids when I came out. My ex and kids were actually understanding and I remain on very good terms with all of them. I might enjoy fun conversations with men and even women here let’s see.

I don’t identify as a T here or even a crossdresser because I see myself as more of an effeminate man, but man. I dress feminine for my lovers sometimes and I like the feel and power of it but in public I’m just that cute gay guy, maybe wearing some lip gloss and tight clothes. I’m 5-9 and about 140 pounds. I’ve been divorced for four years and had only male lovers since. My first experiences with men came after my separation from my wife. It was kind of awkward and unsatisfying the first two times and I was unsure of my role and I even questioned if I was actually gay. My third lover was skilled and knew exactly what he wanted me to be. He was very well endowed but patiently taught me to enjoy that mmm. He taught me so much more too, including how to dress sexy. We couldn’t get enough of each other. Yes, he sissyfied me. And yes, I am totally a bottom ☺