You are so right on both aspects. I divorced after 20 years of marriage myself. I am now engaged to an amazing wonderful man who is my best friend and lover. there isn't anything I cannot tell him!!!

Good luck in your next chapter in LIFE!!!!

Good luck with your new life. =) I am in the middle of a divorce too, and it is scary to face such huge changes. Your advice is excellent. I would say that the things you mentioned are 2 of the biggest reasons why my marriage failed.

Good luck and reach for the stars, show him your better and stronger without him.you may feel lost for a lil while but in time you will reestablish your ground and be ok..and down the road you will probably have the satisfaction of seeing him at the bottom realizing that woman wasnt the "woman of his dreams"

Thank you for sharing what you've learned through much pain.

Correct and absolutely right.

Good thinking process! Kudos.

TY for the advice...congrats... to a much better future...prepared.

Good luck and wish you all the best for the future.

You'll find a man that will love you the way you should be loved.

hope you're ok.

I wish you well....

Congrats on your divorce

wish you all the best, personally i hate divorce, and like to live together until death

Hang in there.