Why can't I unlove you? 😔
When you start loving a person, you jist can't stop doing so. Even if the flaws you see in him don't matter. I wish I know the way out.
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There's one sure way.
If it's safe, say goodbye, give your reasons as gently as possible.
The cut off completely.
If it's not safe cut off and do whatever it takes to stay safe.
You will think about him obsessively for quite some time afterwards, possibly with lots of doubts, grief, remorse and regrets.
Just keep remembering that you're doing this for your own long term health, happiness and well being.
Gradually the thoughts of him will subside, come less and less frequently,
until one day it dawns on you that you haven't had a thought about him in ages. Then you know you're finally free.
If it's safe, say goodbye, give your reasons as gently as possible.
The cut off completely.
If it's not safe cut off and do whatever it takes to stay safe.
You will think about him obsessively for quite some time afterwards, possibly with lots of doubts, grief, remorse and regrets.
Just keep remembering that you're doing this for your own long term health, happiness and well being.
Gradually the thoughts of him will subside, come less and less frequently,
until one day it dawns on you that you haven't had a thought about him in ages. Then you know you're finally free.