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Can someone , maybe a woman.. just tell me what I did wrong here

So today I was at Mall shopping for a gift for my daughter's birthday. I was approaching Macy's and this lady was leaving. She had on a killer perfume that my ex wife use to wear all the time and my daughter LOVED it. I completely forgot its name so I stopped her and said "excuse me, that perfume that you're wearing is lovely and absolutely amazing, what's the name?"

She chuckled and told me and I thanked her and walked away to find it. A few minutes later she came back to me and said "You didn't need to use the perfume as bait to talk to me, the moment you looked at me I was sold." Now I'm there looking CONFUSED as hell because I genuinely didn't know what she was talking about.

I told her that I was really interested in the perfume as I was shopping for my daughter and she loved it. She then said "wow, ok that hurt" and then she threw her iced coffee on me and walked away. Just like in the movies!!

I'm still trying to figure out what was it that I said or did that was soooooo wrong.
Ambroseguy80 · 56-60, M
You refused her advance. She was embarrassed. There’s nothing you could have said or did differently - except be seduced if you wanted to be. That’s my take.
TexChik · F
You unfortunately chose a psycho to ask
JustA · 36-40, M
@TexChik Apparently
vivianoblivion · 26-30, F
She was definitely trying to make you know that she was available and interested, and she thought you were as well.
JustA · 36-40, M
Sounds to me like you may have just been complimentary to her, to say the least and she most likely felt flattered and then you hurt her ego.
I don't think she had any reason to throw her coffee on you, that was just rude on her part but nowadays nobody knows how to take people anymore, let alone a compliment.
MellyMel22 · F
Sounds like it was on her, but next time I’d just ask what the name of it was. Which was it btw? If you remember.
JustA · 36-40, M
@MellyMel22 She's a teenager I presume? Mine is turning 17 next week.
MellyMel22 · F
@JustA Yes.. Happy birthday to her!
JustA · 36-40, M
@MellyMel22 Thank you 🙂
Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.
That's easy, she was fucking nuts.
SW-User
😂 She was positive you were hitting on her. When you didn't follow through as she expected, she was embarrassed that she told you she was attracted to you and you obviously weren't interested. Lol. Look at it this way, you definitely dodged a bullet.
SW-User
She wanted you and could not handle the rejection.
Quimliqer · 70-79, M
Oops, wrong time to ask!!
carpediem · 61-69, M
Was she hot?
JustA · 36-40, M
@carpediem she was ok
You actually didn’t do anything wrong, except possibly ask a psycho an innocent question—and alas, they don’t wear signs.
She presumed and was mistaken. Embarrassing, but rather than act like an adult, apologize and withdraw with some dignity, she threw a tantrum. 🙄
JustA · 36-40, M
@bijouxbroussard thanks for saying that! I felt like I did something wrong 😩
SinlessOnslaught · 26-30, M
Lol dude, you told her you're not interested in her.

 
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