not necessarily. it depends on the circumstances whether or not you give them a piece of your mind. For the longest time I wanted to yell at him. I didn't. I heard a few quotes about silence: "How beautiful it is to stay silent when others expect you to become enraged." Also "Silence is bullsh@#" And "Silence is loaded with answers." If you have nothing to lose, go for it. if you want to be heard, speak. There are repercussions for both & I'm sorry for what you're going through. Hugs