I Feel Like a Loser

Take it slow and easy is my advice. I have very similar feelings. What I do is not focus on what people tell me that is negative and I do what I enjoy. I don't enjoy much but I like animals and find they some how are able to sooth my anxiety, even when dealing with strong crazy dogs at the animal shelters. They take me to a place where I'm not thinking if that makes any sense and my anxiety and nervousness decreases significantly. This is just what works for me but you may have other interests or hobbies that may do the same for you. You look decent, pretty, if that is you and if that's not you like many people on here, that doesn't really matter anyway. What you wrote or said is what counts. That being said you seem to be comfortable in your own skin or how you are. You seem to know what your issues are or obstacles. Seems like you have the answer to your own dilemma. Go out and do something, try to get a better job, find or make new friends, do whatever makes you happy and feel good and keep it light and positive and just go with it. Relax is my own main advice and I'm not telling you what you don't know, ha, just telling you what has helped me. I hope it can help you, you seem pretty down to earth and cool.