I Am Sexually Confused I don't know if I starting to turn full on gay. I've grown into my bi-...

StonerGirl69 · 26-30, F

How far did you go with the first girl? I've hooked up with two girls now but haven't dated one, and I feel like I'm in the same boat. lol I definitely find girls more attractive, have you been with a guy since? I say if you have and it feels different you could definitely be leaning more towards les than straight because I have tried stuff with guys after and it completely grossed me out. That's kinda when you'll have the realization I think, that's how I did anyways.

KandiGhostcat · 22-25, F

Well, with bisexuality it can be a bit strange. Most people think that you're attracted to both genders equally, but truth is that you may be attracted to one gender more then the other. So maybe you're just more attracted to women then men perhaps.

Emele · 31-35, F

Isn't that the 'bi' part of bi-sexual? It's not wanting to be with people of either sex all the time, it can swing one way or the other over any length of time. Explore it, find what feels right. Slowly if you need it to be. I'm sure there are plenty of sites you can find where people who have shared this experience can offer you their advice.

Nat15 · F

I think you should like who you like regardless of their sex. :) let yourself be happy. 🤗

melbeacher · 56-60, M

I think as we get older and more open minded and more comfortable in our own skin we become more accepting of people and ideas that might have put us off when we were younger. I know I am way more open minded now than when I was 20.

mhuman · 36-40, M

listen to the voice of your heart. both man and woman is perfect, the main thing is how good and happy you feel with someone. God Bless You!

river52 · 70-79, M

time has a way of sorting things out. Like others have said, just go with it for now....take opportunities as they come along....enjoy yourself and see what happens.

SW-User

Women display much more effeminate qualities, to me, are just that bit more sensual. I say this as a man who questions his own sexual identity, likely knowing I'm bi, it might come down to what you value .... if I take my chances women are more open emotionally, and my preference, then I'm happy continuing to tell the world I'm straight with a slight interest here and there.

SapphicSandi2187 · 41-45, F

I think sometimes sexuality is more fluid & can oscillate between many things. I say go with the flow & see where it takes you. Listen to your intuition. I'm here if ya have anything you want to talk about or ask questions. 😉

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Johnny1 · 41-45, M

Did this happen all of a sudden?

SW-User

Nothing wrong with that. To each their own

Pat999 · 31-35, M

possibly.. think sexuality is a spectrum...

Terrance · 41-45, M

This sounds legit 🤔

SW-User

Just go with the flow.😌

Serendipitymaybe · 51-55, M

How can I help?

SW-User

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