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I Love Kids Buy Dont Want Any Of My Own

Not all women want kids and we wasn’t put here to keep breeding , not everyone makes a good parent and society should accept that some women just don’t want kids. Plus what’s the point when there’s millions In adoption centres you could just adopt instead of keep messing up the plant by making more and getting it even more over populated. There is less jobs too and houses are harder to come by , there’s more crime and education and passing exams is harder and getting into university and college is harder and so is graduating plus there’s so much sadness and cruelty and danger in the world I wouldn’t want to expose an innocent child to that. They are ok and I don’t want nothing bad to happen to them but having an mini clone of my self really creeps me out. I don’t like myself much as it is and having someone who looks like me and reminds me every time I see them of myself I can’t be doing with that. The actual thought of giving birth terrifies me and Having someone growing inside my stomach for about 9 months scares me too. Not to mention my vag will get stretched and the fact I could end up getting really fat after isn’t for me. I rather have pets so I can have a ruined carpet rather than an ruined life. Plus I’m mentality ill and I struggle every day to look after myself , so really it wouldn’t be fair on kid if I had one. The world is completely messed up and not suitable for a kid to be brought up in. I’m fine with animals. Without kids I can travel , go clubbing , work , have fun , have loads of great sex if I had a girl freind and lots losts more. It’s time for my life to be my own.
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bhatjc · 46-50, M
🥂 so true to that
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@bhatjc thank you for your understanding x
bhatjc · 46-50, M
@SW-User your welcome. I have some relatives (nieces and nephews). i love them with all my heart. But their parents are proof they should never have kides
Doomflower · 41-45, M
Your reasons for abstaining from breeding are almost exactly the same as mine.

I saw a billboard just this morning that there hundreds of kids in foster care within X miles of the sign.

It makes me mad. If you buy a pure bred dog people look at you like you're Hitler but front poop out a tiny dream killing parasite and people fall all over themselves to congratulate you on making a literal mountain of diapers.

You and I could DELIBERATELY pollute and not do the environmental damage of one first world kid from birth to adulthood in our lifetimes.
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@Doomflower thank you for sharing that with me x I thought I was one of the very few but it’s nice to be understood x
I love love love having kids and being pregnant. I despised my ex husband. I realise this is gonna open up a billion questions from stupid people. If i could have more kids with someone who loved me and so much more importantly loved the and wanted THEM I would have more. But i wouldn't want to ever bring more into the kind of situation my daughters ended up in. Going to therapy because they found out the hard way their father was only using them as a controlling mechanism against me. Stupid Bastard.
@SW-User it was horrible but i survived and got me and my girls and we're trying to get over it still. They're doing a lot better. For now. They have ups and downs. Like anyone, he still has the audacity to threaten to take them away even though he doesn't want them. He won't call them. Not on Christmas or their birthday. Never.
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@CallmeHopelessNotRomantic I appreciate you sharing that with me x my mum is thinking about getting a divorce soon from her abuisive husband who bullied me and my sisters and abused her x she had been in an abuisive relationship before that , my dad wasn’t abuisive towards her though x
@SW-User it's so much better being alone than being treated badly by someone that's supposed to treat you you better than everyone one else. If i never ever find some one that does treat me me right that is OK. I'm not going to ever put my girls or myself through that again.

 
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