I Hate Feeling Used

I was never in a relationship for more then 5 years. Seems to be my limit of taking abuse. I'm sorry that happened to you. I think we should have getting married cost as much as a divorce. Maybe there wouldn't be so many divorces. But actually these days there are less and less marriages going on anyway.

You are very right Justpeaceandlovr.
I had a similar thought the other day, that it is cheaper and easier to get divorced, than it is to get married.There is no longer a stigma attached to just living together or divorce and it seems for many, they even justify infidelity.

I didn't know that flenflys. Thanks for the info. I knew that it use to costs about $150,000 per child to the age of 18 to raise them with just their basic needs.

@special I'm sorry for what you've been through. I believe there is someone for everyone. I send you wishes to meet your someone soon. 💞

It's all good special. I'd really rather be by myself right now. No one to argue with. Thank you though. I think what will be will be. :)

how long you were married feeling the first 'hesitations', not sure if all was really good between you two?

That seems like quite a bit. No wonder people don't have huge families anymore.

@justpeace the average wedding in North American costs $25,000