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I Am Petite

Well I can't change who I am because I will always be a small girl. I wish I was a bit bigger so I won't get attacked by perverts. Tall girls are less likely to be attacked because they look so strong. Anyways I wish I was taller. My two best friends are 5'9 and 6'0" and they hate being tall. They shouldn't complain. A LOT of people kill to be taller. 😠
I'm only 4'9 and 25 years old but there are some advantage of being petite too. My 6'3 boyfriend loves how small I am and picking me up and giving me piggyback rides and carrying me. 😀

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PhoenixPhail · M

I LOVE that you have a boyfriend who loves how small you are. And I hope you and he are having a wonderful time.

As an early teenager, I was a bully magnet, being 4'6" tall and weighing 64 pounds. And I came to find out that making myself a target for bullies, perverts, or anyone else who saw fit to take advantage of my physical size, had more to do with my belief and attitude than my size. I know you can't help but see the perverts. They're always there. But you can put yourself in a place of not allowing them to overwhelm you with their thoughts and motives.

And remember, good things come in small packages. Attitude can be one of those things. Use it to your advantage. When you become the attitude of not being a victim, the perverts will pick up on your vibes, and leave you alone.

And then, there's always your boyfriend. I would think his size, alone, would be useful as a deterrent, or, if need be, a defense.

Good Luck.

WelcomeToMyWorld · 31-35, F

Thanks and sorry for what you have been though. My boyfriend told me good things come out from small pagages. My tall friends hate that expression. One said, "What so bad things come from big pagages?!"

PhoenixPhail · M

Thanks. It's taken its toll and still affects me, but I'm getting better at dealing with it these days.

There are all kinds of things that come from all sizes of packages. I think it all comes down to what people practice and carry around with them, not the size of the package which contains it.