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High standard women.

I am a woman who wants to better herself. I have been watching videos on such. Even with dating. I'm sick of lowering my standards.

It amazes me [b]some[/b] men cannot grasp the idea of women having "high standards" and not settling for:

1. slobs
2. No basic hygiene
3. Doesn't have set goals
4. Doesn't care to gain financial support
5. Mooches
6. Treat women like objects
7. Expect to date these women and dont put the effort themselves.

8. Literally thinking they are just gold digging.

Even then, if they want a rich man..why get mad if you want a super model girl friend?

Thought its not about the money, its how they treat her.

[b]This can apply to women as well.[/b]

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Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, F

Nothing wrong with most of those things.. but there's debate over whether some of them are standards or just being too much? Like I'd argue about whether it's essential to have set goals. Goals imo mean you miss out on opportunities and being open to other paths..
I wasn't sure what the financial support meant? Wants to be supported or wants to support someone else? Or claiming government benefits! None of them sound good to me!

I had a smile at the comment about super model girlfriend.. well yes, but the fact is while men might want a supermodel gf - they sure aren't going to get one.. so they have to settle for less.. and perhaps that's the point.. some form of compromise may be prudent

SkullsandBeauty · 26-30, F

@Adaydreambeliever it depends on the goal, it doesn't have to be huge goals but let's say you live at home. You can set a goal to move out at a certain year...maybe start a small business or if can be mental health goals.

My goals are to start my own small business, move out by 30 and save for a car.

Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, F

@SkullsandBeauty Fair enough.. goals work for some people but definitely not all. I've never been goal driven, hate the idea with a passion. This has led to my having a lot of experiences, a career path and people I would never have found if it weren't for being open to opportunities

Goal setting can also lead to disappointment.. and disillusion.. and feeling like a failure when things go wrong or we cannot achieve what we want just by effort alone

SkullsandBeauty · 26-30, F

@Adaydreambeliever that's understandable. I just feel if one complains a lot, maybe they can to better that with a goal.