I Don"t Know

Lately I’ve been feeling so insecure in my relationship with my bf after I caught him texting my big whore of a sister, him calling her beautiful 😡 I was so angry an felt like crying, I was shaking with so much anger that I wanted to just kill him for that! An now every time he’s on his phone I’m so worry about him lying to me about still chatting with her, I had him block her on fb an asked for his PW but few weeks later he changed his pw an I don’t know if he’s still hitting up a storm with her or with other women 🤮 I’m driving myself crazy thinking if he is. An every time I ask him all he says is
“ I’m not talking to no one “ which I don’t believe. Why did I have to fall in love with that man, I cannot bring myself to leave him. I’m so angry an always will be for that one message I saw of him calling her
BEAUTIFUL! He never calls me that on a daily basis or when texting me but he has been calling my sister that 😭 it hurt me seeing his message w/ her. Some times I feel like he’s only with me to get closer to her, I always tell that to him an he gets all quiet, I feel like he’s giving her an other woman attention through his messenger. I just don’t wanna feel like this anymore, so insecure 😟 I know that I haven’t been the best gf as well, after learning about him calling her beautiful I did far worse, I went spend a few nights with an ex after finding out about him an my sister, I slept with someone who wasn’t my bf to make myself feel better, an also still in contact with this man, ik, I’m the biggest an ugliest hypocrite in this whole messed up situation. Nothing but lies between me an my bf but I cannot bring myself to leave him an so can he. I’m just so insecure now, I feel it’s his fault for ruining what I thought was a good relationship. Plz, if anyone can pm about what I should do, how I should come to terms of just leaving this ugly mess.

Ironhand · 51-55, M

Any man you are with, who doesn't tell you that you are beautiful on a daily basis, isn't worth being with.

Tatsumi · 31-35, M

I mean, sometimes guys will date a chick only to get at her friends or sister. It happens.

Whatever the case, that relationship sounds rightly fucked.

Thebestof1995 · 26-30, F

This is just me, but I'm one of those "you get a couple of chances" kind of girls and if I saw the message you're describing I'd tell him I'm ending the relationship. I have little experience in the dating world, but as soon as someone starts giving me clear indicators that they're interested in someone else... I'd have little trouble telling him goodbye. From what I understand you like this guy and probably have feelings for him so I'm sure it'll be a more difficult decision for you.