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I Was Abandoned By My Mother

When I was five, my mom decided that she wanted her own life and not wanting to be a mom anymore so she abandoned us. I don't remember having a mother/daughter bonding. My dad would ask when is mommy coming home. Mom broke promises, never keeps her word, she stood me up twice and never ever apologized or felt bad for what she did. She just said, "Welp I forgot." And didn't feel awful. My friends and family told me to move on and I don't need her. It hurts seeing moms and daughters, even my best friend and her mom laughing and I never had that. Why does my friends get to have their mothers around when mine isn't?! It isn't fair. Why did my mom have to leave?! My mom told me on a text two weeks ago, "Listen I don't wanna be brutal but I don't see you or your brothers much as my children anymore. You're no longer my daughter and let's be honest, I haven't been around. You and your brothers are no longer my children. Talk to ya....whenever." my heart shattered when she said that. Why no why?!

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greenmountaingal · 70-79, F

She is obviously not mature enough to take on any responsible position in life. You need to resign yourself to not having a mom. Life is sure not fair, but you can't reshape reality to fit your emotional needs. All you can do now is take care of yourself and become the kind of woman who will BE a great mother. You can make sure your own children don't suffer as you have.

XReaganX · 26-30, F

@greenmountaingal This ⬆️ as well.

Laughman · 46-50, M

That's horrible. What a bitch.

Mindful · 56-60, F

@Laughman yep. That mom wasn’t made for motherhood. And someone failed to teach her that.

NotValid · 31-35, F

@Mindful I don't understand my mom doesn't want me?

Mindful · 56-60, F

Your mom -at some point- never understood the meaning of being a mother...she certainly didn’t understand how to cope with life, if she can’t love someone else, and can’t have a healthy relationships, someone should have told her to avoid having children. . @NotValid

XReaganX · 26-30, F

I'm sorry that happened to you. I'll tell you what I told my girlfriend, no one can really replace your parents but you can still have a family of your own. Can still bond with other people and create a close relationship like family. I'm sorry she did that to you, but give your affections to those who really deserve it. ❤ you won't be disappointed with that.

drtt943

I’m so sorry. I think shes blaming you for her failures.

NotValid · 31-35, F

@drtt943 I'll never have a loving mother.

Mindful · 56-60, F

So is your dad still around?

NotValid · 31-35, F

@Mindful of course I'm blessed to have him

Mindful · 56-60, F

I’m so glad you do!
Some people aren’t born quite right... she, your mom, sounds like one of those people. Did you ever get to interview other members of her family? Or are they just as bad as she was?@NotValid

TerriG · 26-30, F

Omg stop with this lie

NotValid · 31-35, F

@TerriG Why would I lie about my mom abandoning me? Get out if my face

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