Tomorrow is our first divorce hearing

It'll be the first time I've seen my soon to be ex husband in almost 3 months. I am anxious and dreading it. I can only hope he's significantly more bald and wearing short sleeves so I can see the tattoo of the other woman's name on his arm. At least it is soothing to know there is no way he will get any sort of custody of our kids. But deep down I'm still nervous....