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I Dont Like How People Try To Hug Me When Im Upset Or Crying

I'm not a big hugger in general.

On the rare occasions I do receive a hug I'm definitely not the one who initiated it. Nor was I really expecting it- so this results in three awkward types of hugs.

Hug #1 - This is the most common hug I resort to. Give or take 80% of the hugs I experience are turned into this dreaded embrace: The side hug.

Hug #2 - If I really wasn't expecting the hug I'm probably not going to hug back. Which is... yeah.

Hug #3 - Sometimes I hug back. I just feel suuuuper uncomfortable.

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SW-User

I don't mind hugs but I hate the superficial ones. I'd rather not be hugged at all than get one of those.

CaptainCanadia · 41-45, M

First rule of hugs, make sure the hugger LIKES being hugged. I have a few friends who hate hugs and I always respect that shit. Even if they're crying. You have a no-hug promise from Barvo. Even lame-o Christian side hugs.

GlassDog · 46-50, M

I guess it depends who gives them. I really don't like being hugged by my family. But with other people I feel close to, it's nice.

floatingintheocean · 36-40, F

Me neither, apart from my bf I just don't feel comfortable.

Eveningsun · 41-45, F

imma hug you

Byeimoff

I just scream "RAPE" if someone goes to hug me. Nobody's ever tried twice 🤗

olivia · 22-25, F

huggingphobia.

IntenseCookie · 26-30, F

Poochie - Nu >:I

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