I Dont Like How People Try To Hug Me When Im Upset Or Crying If someone very specifically says,... | I Dont Like How People Try To Hug Me When Im Upset Or Crying

IntenseCookie · 26-30, F

Lutiey - Yeah. I feel like there's a fair amount of people who say, "I don't like hugs" when they mean they prefer surprise hugs. Which is okay I guess, it just makes people not take those who really don't like being touched seriously.

Prolly a better way to word that last sentence. I don't wanna figure it out right now though .-.

Lutiey · 31-35, M

Cookie - I dont like any source of PDA, any hugging, hand holding, shoulder patting, shoulder tapping, foot brushing, high fiving, and movement guiding. Is that more specific? haha. It just annoys me because it feels very invasive. I only do handshaking, but even then I brush my hands off when they arent looking.

IntenseCookie · 26-30, F

Oh, I probably should have gotten specific in the story. We can't create groups yet, and this is the closest group to "I don't like being hugged." So when I wrote this I forgot to include: Whether or not I'm upset/crying. I'll edit that in :0

Lutiey · 31-35, M

I feel like many times its just an excuse to try and hug you. I dont like hugs either.

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IntenseCookie · 26-30, F

Hairy - And I appreciate the gesture and everything, but sometimes instinct kicks in faster than I realize it.

SW-User

lol
I can totally relate to that.
If only those people knew...

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Starlight016 · 36-40, F

I understand. I don't like getting touched too...

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WarmAtNight · M

But, on the other hand i get so upset sometimes i don't wanna be touched either.

Peppa · 31-35, F

Haha totally agree

WarmAtNight · M

Yeah girls don't seem to like that