I Want to Know How You Do It

Hard. But sometimes you have to. I had to after more years but one day you wake up and realize that no matter hoe much you loved them both of you changed and neither like to admit it and this makes both suffer needlessly. It's better to face the problem and rip it like a band aid. If you're meant to be together you find your way back if not then not. Forcing things for the sake of what was or commodity only makes things worse. So thinking about all that you go and say it's over and that distance should be there to tell whether any love is left or just the comfort of having someone is keeping two strangers together in love with people that don't exist anymore.

Better being told than to be living in a Lie

My ex husband did this after 4 years together. I came home from work, and he was gone. No notice, nothing. The last thing he had said to me was, "I love you, and can't wait to see you." Then he was just, gone...

WOw, that's terrible, sorry to hear

It all depends on the relationship.

Sorry to hear about that